It’s extremely difficult to explain the difference between connection and connections … while being into a love story.
It's extremely difficult to explain the difference between connection and connections ... while being into a love story.
And we should not even bother to mention that … if we don’t really love for real that person. by the well know romanian essayist Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
I’ve once read a love book … about a guy who was extremely in love of his women.
Unfortunately for him … even if the experience itself was amazing … also happened … sometimes … to have ugly moments.
Because of her past … and the fact that she simple adored masculine energies … she always used to connect with men … right in front of his eyes.
First time … he could not believe it.
Second time … he was so, so offended … that he wanted to leave and never come back to her.
Never … ever.
But those episodes …. repeated on and on and on.
Unfortunately for him … his soul loved her too much to break up.
And he endured her stupid behaviour for months … feeling totally humiliated … but also not saying a word.
One day … he looked at her … and dared to ask … “Why the hell you act like a whore in front of my eyes?
At least you could do that behind my back.”
Of course … that she felt extremely offended …. and a scandal started between them … lasting for weeks.
But … again … the passing of time made him realise she did not changed …. and even worst cause she adored to be adored by all the men from the scene of her life.
One day … meditating … seeing that she does not change at all … but balancing between loving her too much to break up and ruining himself emotionally …. he decides to go to a spiritual guru and asks for an advice.
The guy hears his story … and smiling he replies … “Yes … I understand.
You are in love indeed of a woman who just adores connecting to masculine energies … and most probably you’ll never be able to stop her doing that, cause for her it’s actually an addiction.
Or … you could love her body and her soul so, so much that … one day … she’ll just start to be addicted to the love story … you have together.
On the other hand … you could also do an experiment and accept her as she is … allowing her to act as a whore.
In front of your eyes … or behind your back.
Most probably …. only few men into the world would give the acceptance for that to their women.
The others will be simple forced to … digest that.
Or you you could try … what french people use to call … menage a trois … and bring one of your friends in bed with the 2 of you.
Allow her to experience what she is chasing for … connect to new and new masculine energies.
And … the last option you have … is to become a … super love.
… make love with her into a divine way, make her always compliments, offer her all the time gifts … take her to amazing places …. etc etc”
Frank … was totally annoyed of what the spiritual guru … told him and left.
So … he decided to also go to a psychologist and ask for an advice too.
The guy … smiles and replies …. “Bring 2-3 of your friends and ask them to make love with her in front of your eyes.
Allow them to adore her.
… to love her.
Sexually … to play so nicely with her … that she will become super happy.
But … in all this time … you need to look at the expression of her face.
And … if you can still be with her after such an episode… while you will make love to her … look again into her face.
If you can make her feel even better … sexually speaking …. you still have a chance.
If not … just leave that love story, cause you’ll just ruin your soul.”
Again … he disliked … what he was told.
Or … maybe it was actually too difficult to accept the real situation … into such weird love story.
Most probably it’s too difficult to force our partners to get rid of their addiction for our sake.
No matter how nice we would play this role of an amazing partner … sometimes the addiction itself it’s more powerful.
And all becomes a story about experiencing the emotional balance between amazing moments spent together and ruining our souls with all sorts of negative emotions induced by the partner.
But the question is … why should we stay in such a story … if all repeated on and on and on … and there is actually no real chance to improve things.
…. only to illusory believe we can do it …. Which is actually a total nonsense.
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